Whenever we hear someone saying that they are looking for love we immediately take a guess that they are looking for a romantic relationship. We remind ourselves of a relationship we used to have or a desire to have in the future.
But what most of us don’t realize is that we can find love in many different ways and forms. We should be more grateful for the things we have and the opportunities we get and start enjoying all those.
We need to love, to be loved back.
But not just any love, we need to give an unconditional love because at the end of the day it is the ultimate form in which love exists.
Our past experiences shape us, and this is why looking for love is dependent on all things we did and want to establish. What we say, what we do, make who we are and who we become.
Sometimes, it takes a broken heart or two to realize that if there was no love, there would be no purpose. Looking for love is the ultimate and most important goal one should have in life.
The best thing we can do for ourselves is to accept the fact of falling in love and being hurt. We need to learn how to surpass all the challenges life gives us and grow wiser, stronger. We should love ourselves but also love others and give without limits and boundaries.
When looking for love, stop pushing and forcing but let it all come naturally.
Love is everywhere.
You can find it in the strangest places. You can find it in kids’ innocent eyes, in the elderly and their pureness.
To experience this love in the greatest form and way, one has to let go of all the pride and all the egoism. Let the guards down.
You need to let yourself be vulnerable and trust that you will not get hurt but always aspire for the best outcome. And if you eventually do get hurt, you need to stand up and move on without the fear and anger in your heart. Move on and keep looking for love because one day, it will all be worth it.